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Some foreign medical profession has long study of men in the menopausal syndrome. Some of the humor of American doctors simply referred to as “male menopause syndrome.” Yale University psychologist Vincent Dannierli study concluded that: All men go through the “middle-aged transition period”, or menopause. Most of the men in menopause around the age of 40, individuals have to go to 50-year-old began. Some of the men menopause relatively stable, physical and psychological response was not obvious, but some men will be psychological concerns, doubts about their own work, about his wife, lost confidence in the life of the mind and interest.

There are a class of men of the main symptoms of menopause in the sexual life.

Wang, a middle-aged woman told me the references into her married life in a period of painful experience.

Ms. Wang’s husband is a private enterprise owners, he is a successful business field, the feelings in life has always been held responsible and even conservative. Wang said she and her husband feeling very good, very satisfied with the sex life. However, two years ago, her husband of a sudden changed, lazily become, if anything of despair. So concerned about his wife’s husband, tired of her husband and even made them shouted. Few days, the couple did not live a successful life. The husband seems very anxious, he repeatedly tried to have failed, resulting in an impotence to come up with.

Ms. Wang and her husband had fallen into deep pain and worry among. Later, Wang’s husband said he went to Xinjiang to open up new business, for the time being to Guangzhou by the end of the business. Ms. Wang’s husband is confused and worried, but did not dare to say, You Taqu had no choice but to.

The husband did not return to six months, and only occasionally make a long-distance calls are safe countries only. Finally, Ms. Wang received a letter from her husband, said he and his wife with very painful, because she made him lose the function of the men, and that man is for life. Now, he and the other in Xinjiang have been living with a woman, the woman made him a man of the function miraculously restored, and more than ever strong. He felt that this woman is his Jiumingenren that he loved her more than their love. If she lost, he can not live by. He used the very language of the base and the guilty wife to beg forgiveness and tolerance he found the husband, and he promised to divorce him and marry the woman he loved. He promised a huge sum of money to pay his ex-wife, made for the Day of Atonement.

Cried a Miss Wang, all of a sudden become numb and the cold. Her husband back to a letter expressing his wish to divorce. However, two months later, things have taken place in dramatic changes in Wang’s husband had been deceived mistress of a huge sum of money, and return to Guangzhou alone. Wu Yan see his wife and children, parents in the home went into hiding. Ms. Wang to clear up the mood, and with great calm and sincerity to please her husband back.

Now, Ms. Wang and her husband and a good unabated, still living a happy life. Wang’s husband, recalled the nightmare that period of time, then it seems that there is a devil in his control, everything can not be independent. Ms. Wang and her husband do not understand why this way, because she was well aware of her husband, I believe that the moral line of defense, he can not easily be washed collapse.

I think this may be the male menopause, the imbalance between the physical and psychological performance, right? Although most doctors have denied the existence of symptoms, most medical textbooks do not mention the symptoms, but those who want to study the symptoms of the American Medical Association and Bo Shiwei Nolan is confident that middle-aged men into the encounter after the troubled circumstances and probably a woman’s menopause symptoms similar.

Dr. Nolan that he practice for decades, the reception many of the symptoms of menopause appear male patients. Throughout this symptom, each performance is different, can be summarized as insomnia, loss of sexual desire, decreased appetite, anxiety, hypochondria, alcohol, tobacco, migraines, high blood pressure, long-term fatigue (refer to the organization , For the time being, and other organs lose the ability to respond to the stimulus).

Nolan said he did not realize that this is the physical and psychological response to menopause, such patients are unable to provide the drug outside help, until his own first-hand experience of this kind of torture only after great need to help men understand all the symptoms And to conquer it.

We know that physical and psychological menopausal women was mainly due to the reaction of estrogen-induced reduction in the level. However, entering the middle-aged men, the male hormone testosterone would not suffer. Moreover, the testosterone rise and fall with men’s strength is not directly related to sexual desire. This shows that the male menopause and hormone response to the physical and mental there is no relationship.In that case, the cause of male menopause syndrome Why is this so? Dr. Nolan may be the brain chemical changes.

Women appear symptoms of menopause, the drug can adjust the level of hormones have been alleviated, the men menopausal symptoms are as yet no effective drugs to deal with. Moreover, unlike men, as women are willing to share their feelings on their own difficulties, not Dr. Xiang Xinli for help.

Most of the men in self-esteem, sense of responsibility and the will to support themselves through this difficult time, the behavior does not occur, and even cause the breakdown of the marriage, the cause of the failure of evil, and so on, the men of this particular period is not for people’s attention , Including the man himself is not concerned. For those men out of the question, often not more understanding and sympathy for the anti-be accused of “fail to live up to,” “choose to corrupt.” It is true that the human ability to control, that is, the will, this is not too much to blame.However, doctors are not accused of patients. As relatives of patients, doctors should study the scientific attitudes and methods to encourage patients with the diseases.

Among men in that his behavior is not a bad disease, they will reduce the self-reproach or give up on themselves in a calm, philosophical state of mind for the time being to deal with difficulties. All clinical experiences have shown that male menopause symptoms will go away, but some of the shorter duration of symptoms, some longer sustainable in general the months and years-old.In addition, the strong willpower of the people will not only alleviate the symptoms, but also shorten the duration of symptoms.

Dr. Nolan advised men should pay attention to his middle-aged transition period, if the adverse psychological reactions, we might as well do it in accordance with the following methods:

Adhere to carry out regular physical exercise or other physical activities can be active, it is best to take part in a day, at least three times a week. Such activity can improve your sense of self so that you feel full of energy and good health.

No matter how much you hate your job, in which time should not yield to their own. You should insist on doing a good job, as well as your day-to-day work of academic research, not trying to change the past and study habits.

During this period, not on their own lives to make big changes.At such times, you can choose one or two new things to do in order to achieve short-term psychological meet, but do not destroy your life’s basic structure.

Alcohol and women is taboo in people’s menopause, and alcohol do not remember, let alone extra-marital affairs took place.

If you feel that their symptoms of a serious, it should be experienced to the doctor for help. Experienced physician in the psychological and mental guidance for patients at the same time, the drug can alleviate the insomnia, headaches and impotence, and other symptoms. To help patients on the Elimination of the “male menopause” fear and enhance their confidence to tide over their difficulties.